{"id":1793,"date":"2017-06-24T20:48:00","date_gmt":"2017-06-24T17:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mazion.org\/?p=1793"},"modified":"2017-06-24T20:48:00","modified_gmt":"2017-06-24T17:48:00","slug":"trei-sfaturi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mazion.org\/en\/2017\/06\/trei-sfaturi.html","title":{"rendered":"Trei sfaturi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A very poor newly wedded, young couple lived in a small farm. One day<br \/>\nthe husband made the following proposal to his wife: Honey, I will leave<br \/>\n the house: I will travel faraway, get a job and work hard in order to<br \/>\ncome back and give you the comfortable life that you deserve. I do not<br \/>\nknow how long I will stay away, I only ask one thing, please wait for<br \/>\nme, and while I am away, you should be faithful to me, because I will be<br \/>\n faithful to you. His wife agreed, so the young man left. He walked many<br \/>\n days until he found a farmer who was in need of someone to help him.<br \/>\nThe young man offered his services. He was accepted. Therefore he<br \/>\ndiscussed the terms with his boss: Let me work for as long as I want and<br \/>\n when I think I should go home, please relieve me of my duties. I do not<br \/>\n want to receive my salary. I ask you to save it for me, until the day I<br \/>\n leave. The day I decide to go, please give me the money and I will go<br \/>\nmy way. They agreed on that. So, the young man worked for twenty years<br \/>\nwithout holiday and without rest. After twenty years, he came to his<br \/>\nboss and said: Boss, I want my money, because I am returning to my home.<br \/>\n The boss replied: All right, after all, I made a deal with you and I<br \/>\nwill stick to it. However, before you go I want to offer you something<br \/>\nnew: I will give you all your money and send you away; or I will give<br \/>\nyou 3 pieces of advice and send you away. If I give you money, you lose<br \/>\nthe 3 pieces of advice. If I give you the 3 pieces of advice, you lose<br \/>\nthe money. Now, go to your room and think about your answer. He thought<br \/>\nfor two days. Then he went to the boss and told him: I want the 3 pieces<br \/>\n of advice. The boss stressed again, if I give you the 3 pieces of<br \/>\nadvice, I will not give you the money, and the man replied: I want the 3<br \/>\n pieces of advice. The boss then told him: No. 1: Never take shortcuts<br \/>\nin your life, shorter and unknown paths can cost your life. No. 2: Never<br \/>\n be too curious, for curiosity towards evil can be deadly. No. 3: Never<br \/>\nmake decisions in moments of anger or pain, because when you repent, it<br \/>\ncould be too late. After giving these 3 pieces of advice, the boss said<br \/>\nto him: Here, you have 3 loaves of bread, 2 are for you to eat during<br \/>\nthe journey and the last is for you to eat with your wife when you get<br \/>\nhome. So, the man went his way, after twenty years away from home and<br \/>\nfrom his wife, whom he loved so much. After the first day of travel, he<br \/>\nfound a man who greeted him and asked: Where are you going? He replied:<br \/>\nTo a distant place which is about 20 days away if I continue walking.<br \/>\nThe man said to him: Ol&#8217; boy, this path is too long! I know a shortcut<br \/>\nthat is very safe and you will arrive in 5 days only. The man began to<br \/>\nfollow the path suggested until he remembered the first piece of advice.<br \/>\n Then, he returned and followed the long path. Days later he learned<br \/>\nthat the shortcut led to an ambush. After a few more days of travel, he<br \/>\nfound an inn by the roadside, where he could rest. He paid for a room<br \/>\nand after taking a bath he lay down to sleep. During the night he woke<br \/>\nup as he heard a terrifying scream. He rose to his feet and went to the<br \/>\ndoor to check what happened. As he was opening the door, he remembered<br \/>\nthe second piece of advice. Therefore he returned, lay down again and<br \/>\nslept. At dawn, after breakfast, the owner of the lodging asked him if<br \/>\nhe had not heard the scream at night. He affirmed that he heard. Then,<br \/>\nthe host said: Were you not curious to see what happened? And he<br \/>\nreplied: No, I was not. Then the host said: You are the first guest to<br \/>\nleave this inn alive. My neighbour is completely crazy. He usually<br \/>\nshouts at night to call someone\u2019s attention. When some of the guests<br \/>\ncome out, he kills them and buries their bodies in the backyard. The man<br \/>\n continued his long journey, eager to arrive soon. After many days and<br \/>\nnights walking, he was very tired, but he finally saw his house far<br \/>\naway. It was night. He saw some light coming out of the window of his<br \/>\nhouse and was able to see the silhouette of his wife. But he also saw<br \/>\nthat she was not alone. He came closer and saw there was a man with her.<br \/>\n She softly caressed his hair. When he saw that scene, his heart was<br \/>\nfilled with hatred and bitterness. He decided to rush at and kill them<br \/>\nboth mercilessly. However, he took a deep breath and he remembered the<br \/>\nthird piece of advice. Then he stopped, reflected and decided to sleep<br \/>\noutside that night. He slept in the midst of the bushes, determined to<br \/>\nmake a decision the next day. At dawn, he was calmer and thought: I will<br \/>\n not kill my wife and her lover. I am going back to my boss to ask him<br \/>\nto take me back. But before I go, I want to tell my wife that I have<br \/>\nalways been faithful to her. He went to the front door and knocked. When<br \/>\n his wife opened the door and recognized him, she cried and embraced him<br \/>\n warmly. He tried to push her away, but he was not able. Then, with<br \/>\ntears in his eyes he told her: I was faithful to you but you betrayed<br \/>\nme. She was shocked, so she replied: How did I betray you? I have never<br \/>\nbetrayed you. I waited patiently for you for twenty good years. Then he<br \/>\nasked: How about the man that you were caressing yesterday? And she<br \/>\nsaid: That man is your son. When you left, I discovered I was pregnant.<br \/>\nToday he is twenty years old. Hearing that, the man asked her<br \/>\nforgiveness. He met and hugged his son. Then he told them all the things<br \/>\n he had experienced while away. Meanwhile, his wife prepared some coffee<br \/>\n for them to eat together, the last bread given by his boss. After a<br \/>\nprayer of thanksgiving, he broke the bread. When he looked at it, he<br \/>\nfound all his money inside. In fact, there was even more than the right<br \/>\npayment for his twenty years of dedication and hard work. Friends, our<br \/>\nGod is like this boss. When he asks us to make a sacrifice, he wants to<br \/>\ngive us more than what we give Him. He wants us to have His unique<br \/>\nwisdom as well as the material blessings.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A very poor newly wedded, young couple lived in a small farm. 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